In an update to this post (since someone emailed me asking and I realized I never had updated!), I'm currently in touch with a Creighton Model teacher and hoping to meet with her at the beginning of December to see if that can help me with my cycles. Dh and I have been attempting to abstain while I'm on the pill (it can cause very early miscarriage if conception occurs), but the OB wanted me to take it for 6 months, and that's just not going to work (dh is already Not Very Happy). Plus, I would like to know exactly what's wrong and fix it instead of simply treating symptoms. Hopefully the CM will help!